
The following article was sent to me this week by Thomas. It seemed to pick up on much of what we have been talking about recently and may help some of us as we seek to press in to the Lord's purpose for us at BridgePoint. Please be free to add your comments;
WHY ARE WE HERE?
 Some Thoughts on Gathering  Together
  by Chip Brogden 
  "Now in the church  that was at Antioch there were certain prophets  and teachers: Barnabas, Simeon who was called Niger, Lucius of Cyrene, Manaen who had been brought up with  Herod the tetrarch, and Saul. As they ministered to the Lord and fasted, the  Holy Spirit said, 'Now separate to Me Barnabas and Saul for the work to which I  have called them.' Then, having fasted and prayed, and laid hands on them, they  sent them away." (Acts 13:1-3). 
  As a starting point for our discussion let us consider  this question: why are we here? The simple answer to that question is this: we  are here today because for the last two years we have been burdened by the Lord  to see a local expression of the Body of Christ, a practical expression of what  we have taught for many years. That is to say, we teach many things concerning  the Lord Jesus Christ, God's Eternal Purpose, the Church that Jesus is building,  loving one another, Body ministry, etc. We still teach and believe these things  and have walked in them individually and with little groups here and there, but  we have lacked the means to see these things lived out in an intentional  fellowship of believers. 
   We have a purpose, an intention, a reason for gathering  together that goes beyond food, fellowship, and socializing. These you can get  at any fast-food restaurant. Part of our frustration with "house churching" as a  movement is that in many cases we saw people gathered together just for the sake  of a meeting, but nothing of any spiritual import ever took place. It met a  need, but it did not meet the Lord's need. 
   Today marks the beginning of a process in which we are  gathering together, beneath the Headship of Christ, not just to have a "meeting"  (may God deliver us from mere meetings!) but to  explore just Who He is, and who we are in Him, and what all that  means in the context of loving God and loving one another.  
   In Acts 13 we have a good example of what it means to be  the Church. I think we see in the Book of Acts two kinds of churches. Of course  there is only one Church, but there are seven kinds of  churches represented in the Book of Revelation, and there are two  kinds of churches I see represented in the Book of Acts. Both of these churches  belonged to Jesus, but both these churches had their own peculiar way of looking  at things. 
   First you have the Church in Jerusalem. Now we know that  everything had its beginning in Jerusalem. There in Jerusalem was the Temple, and the priesthood, and the Law, and  that whole religious system known as Judaism. The early Church was simply a sect  within that religious system. They still considered themselves Jews, and Jesus  was their Jewish Messiah. They preached Jesus to the Jews only - those outside  of Israel were not included. Isn't that  amazing? 
   But Jesus said to go into all the world. Things were  very comfortable there in Jerusalem, and the early Christians were not so  inclined to go. It took persecution to scatter them, and even then, they only  shared Jesus with the Jews. Then something wonderful happened. Some Jewish  believers left Jerusalem, came to Antioch, and preached  Jesus to the Gentiles. Lo and behold, those Gentiles believed, and all of a  sudden, you have non-Jewish believers in Jesus. Christianity at that point  ceased to be a Jewish phenomenon; it became a universal thing. In fact, the  Bible says it was at Antioch - not Jerusalem - that  the disciples were first called Christians.  
    So on the one hand you have the Church in Jerusalem, and on the other hand you have the Church in  Antioch. They  are one body in Christ of course, but two very different fellowships with two  very different ways of going about things. And this set them up for  conflict. Before long, some Christians from Jerusalem came to Antioch and said, "Unless you are circumcised  according to the Law of Moses you cannot be saved!" (cf. Acts 15:1). Now today we do not argue  about circumcision. We argue over water baptism, or tongues, or denominations,  or doctrine, or theology. The point is those Christians in Jerusalem represent the  Organized Religion of their day - laws, rules, regulations, traditions, and  history. According to James, there were many thousands of disciples in Jerusalem who believed on  the Lord Jesus but were zealous for the Law of Moses (cf. Acts 21:20).  
  Antioch represented something new, different, fresh and free; something utterly non-religious and outside of Organized Religion. Antioch  represented Spirit and Truth, and it was probably easier for them to grasp it  because they did not have a physical Temple, a visible priesthood, or a list of  commandments to keep. They heard Paul teach that they themselves are the  Temple of  God, and that He has made  us all kings and priests of His Kingdom, and that the law of Love is all the law  they needed. Whereas the Church in Jerusalem was  very slow to preach Jesus to anyone but the Jews, the Church in Antioch helped launch the missionary journeys of Paul,  which led to a rapid multiplication of disciples and churches all across  Asia Minor. 
   Which fellowship would you rather be associated with:  Jerusalem, or Antioch? For me, Jerusalem represents our brothers and sisters in  denominational churches, whereas Antioch represents those who  are following the simplicity of Christ outside of  Sunday-morning religion. I was recently interviewed by Agape Press for an  article about the house church movement. They asked a lot of questions and I  felt it important to emphasize that whether we worship God in a church building  or in a home fellowship, we are all brothers and sisters in Christ. I was  pleased to see that is what they quoted me on. Antioch could not have existed apart from Jerusalem, and Jerusalem  could not have existed apart from Antioch. The moment we begin to think of  ourselves as "superior" we are becoming Pharisees. We should be willing, rather,  to humbly explain the way of God more accurately to those who have not yet  entered into the fullness of Christ. 
  Regardless, more and more people are leaving "Jerusalem" and coming over to "Antioch", and this  represents something very significant in what the Lord is doing today. How can  we maintain the Antioch flavor and maintain a  good relationship with Jerusalem without falling back into  religiosity? And is there a way for us to define what it means to be a New  Testament fellowship along the order of Antioch,  rather than Jerusalem? There are, I believe, three  practices that define the Church in Antioch as described for us here in Acts 13.  They are: Reaching Up, Reaching In, and Reaching Out. Let us look at each one  individually. 
  REACHING UP 
  "As they ministered  to the Lord, and fasted, the Holy Ghost said..." (Acts 13:2a).  
   This fellowship exists, first and foremost, to meet the  Lord's Need, not man's need. If you have read or listened to our teachings on  the subject of ministering to the Lord then you know what I am  talking about; if not, I encourage you to do so. It is  absolutely critical. We have to get the order right, and in Antioch, before they  ministered to one another, they ministered to the Lord. They reached up before  they reached in. 
   This represents a departure from the way we are used to  thinking about "church". When people come together the expectation is that they  are there to receive something. Why else does a person come to  a fellowship, but to receive fellowship? While this is one  part of gathering together, it is not the only part, and it is not the most  important part. The most important part of gathering together is ministering to  the Lord as one Body. 
  Someone asks, is that singing songs? Singing is part of  it, but not all of it. Is it prayer? Prayer is part of it, but not all of it. We  can sing and pray for ourselves or we can sing and pray unto the Lord. There is  a big difference, and we cannot teach people the difference, we have to show  them the difference. 
   Ministering to the Lord begins with a heart-attitude  that recognizes one supreme truth: the Church exists for Jesus. Indeed, "All  things were created by Him and for Him" and "He is the Head of all things  in the Church, which is His Body, the fullness of Him Who  fills all in all." The sheep belong to the Great Shepherd; the House of God  belongs to God; the Body of Christ belongs to Christ; the Harvest belongs to the  Lord of the Harvest. And so, the Church that Jesus is building does not belong  to us, it belongs to Jesus. This puts things in a different perspective.  
   In the weeks leading up to opening our home for  fellowship, a brother who sought the mind of the Lord with us concluded, "This  is important to the Lord." What does that mean? It means that regardless of what  we want, or what we think, a fellowship along the lines I have just described is  important to the Lord, important to His Kingdom. This brother was able to set  aside his own personal preference and desire for fellowship and perceive that  this gathering together is primarily for Jesus' sake, not our own sake. It is  not done on a whim, or just for the fun of it, or for what we hope to get out of  it, or just because we want to get something going. That is a dead, carnal  thing. But having a Bethany place, a place where the Lord Jesus is  recognized in His preeminence, is important - and rare. That makes  it all the more important to Him.  
And so, ministering to the Lord - meeting His Need - is  something we value so highly that we put it first and foremost, just as the  believers in Antioch did.   REACHING IN 
  "And when they had  fasted and prayed, and laid their hands on them..." (Acts 13:3a).  
  When we have ministered to the Lord then we can hear  from Him and be led of His Spirit. When we have reached up to Him then we can  reach in to one another. When His Need is met then we can turn to meeting the  needs of one another. Even though they were already praying and fasting before  the Holy Ghost spoke, they prayed and fasted before laying hands on them. The  first praying and fasting was for reaching up, but the second praying and  fasting was for reaching in. 
   A personal touch is needed. Jesus did give speeches from  the pinnacle of the Temple; He laid hands on the sick and took the  little children into his arms. The believers in Antioch laid hands on Paul  and Barnabas, and this demonstrated a oneness that mere  words cannot communicate. 
I would suggest that the simplest way to understand Body  Life is to look at it as living in the Family of God. I Timothy 5:1, 2 says to  treat the older men as fathers, the younger men as brothers, the older women as  mothers, and the younger women as sisters - in all purity. In the end it really  doesn't matter who we think we are, what we think we're called to do, or what  title or position we have or do not have. If we will just love one another as  dear family members it will solve all the problems and answer all the questions  about leadership, authority, who's in charge, who are the elders, what about  women, what about the children, etc.    The Church is where we learn how to be a family. We can  call one another "brother" and "sister" but do we really have a sense about what  this means? Someone has said you can choose your friends but  you are stuck with your relatives. God has not called us to  be "friends" with one another, but family. Friends are fickle. So many times  when people cannot get along, or there is the first hint of disagreement, they  are ready to break fellowship and leave. Instead, we need to learn how to love  one another, honor one another, esteem others as better than ourselves, submit  to one another in love, pray for one another, protect one another, and help one  another as family. 
  Of course, if your earthly family is dysfunctional, you  don't know what a real family is, and the Church should be the one place you can  go to learn it. Sadly, we fall short of the mark, so it is something we have to  get serious about. In his book, Trust: The One Thing That Makes Or Breaks A  Leader, Les Csorba writes, "Americans are not as shallow and self-centered as it  appears, but they do not often have a community that they can look toward that  actually embodies the rhetoric that flows from its mouth." That statement  applies to Christians in every country, not just in America.  
  What is the greatest commandment? Jesus said there are  two. They are basically these: Love God and Love One Another. And when you quote  the whole passage you find this is a radical love that calls for us to give  everything we have - all our heart, soul, mind, and strength.  
  Love is more important than doctrine. In the middle of  all that teaching on "how to have church" in I Corinthians 12 and 14 is the  great love chapter of I Corinthians 13 - "the more excellent way", and without  that, everything else profits nothing. What you teach and what you believe is  important, but it is not the most important thing. 
  In our experience, dealing with wounded people all over  the world, I can say this much: people join a church with their head, but they  leave it with their heart. What does that mean? It means when they are looking  for a church, or fellowship, or group to be a part of, they think the most  important thing is to get a doctrinal statement, or a mission statement, or a  list of things the group believes. If there is agreement there they are  encouraged to have found "like-minded" believers and so they begin attending.  They have made an intellectual decision based on doctrine.  
   But when they leave the group, for the most part, it is  not because someone changed their doctrinal position, or because they suddenly  disagreed with Point #238 in their "Statement of Fundamental  Truths." Why did they leave? Because they were wounded by a lack  of love, a lack of grace, a lack of caring, a lack of mercy, a lack of  thoughtfulness. They needed love but they got legalism; they needed relationship  but they got religion. In the end their leaving has very little to do with why  they joined to begin with. They join with their head but they leave with their  heart. 
  Jesus said the world will know we are His disciples by  the love we have for one another. In the same manner, the world will know we are  not His disciples by the lack of love we have for one another. Honestly, not  everyone is interested in that kind of a relationship. It is easier to slip into  the pews of a mega-church and just be anonymous and private. In a home  fellowship there is no luxury of anonymity - this is a micro-church, not a  mega-church! Here we are, getting to know one another, with all our strengths  and weaknesses, bearing one another's burdens. A lot of people will think they  have enough burdens without having to take on everyone else's burdens! But  that's what being a family and reaching in is all about.  
  REACHING OUT 
  "So they, being sent  forth by the Holy Ghost, departed..." (Acts 13:4a).  
   If we are ministering to the Lord, and ministering to  one another, we are increasing in love. This naturally leads us to Reach Out.  The believers in Antioch were not a self-contained group huddled  together behind closed doors in hopes of keeping the world at a  safe distance. They literally changed the world and altered the course of  history because they saw the value of Reaching Out, and they understood that the  Holy Spirit might, at any time, call some of their own fellowship to leave for  parts unknown and establish other fellowships. 
  It took persecution to get the Church in Jerusalem to go forth, but the Church in Antioch sent them forth by  the Holy Spirit. Suffering forced them to take action in Jerusalem, but love compelled them to act in Antioch. What a  difference! There is a sending forth by the Holy Spirit. There is a time when we  will leave this place and go back to our homes, our businesses, our jobs, our  schools, our neighborhoods. The Christian life is not sitting around on your  behind in a meeting, but going forth in the power of God to bear the Testimony  of Jesus to those around us. 
  What does this mean? It could mean many things -  witnessing, helping, giving, inviting others, opening your home, planting other  fellowships, joining together with other believers for mutual edification and  comfort. Antioch  did all these things. The point is they were not closed off to the world,  isolated from the rest of the Churches. They received brothers and sisters, and  they sent brothers and sisters. They supported Paul in his apostolic ventures.  They sent money to the Church in Jerusalem. Reaching out was a way of life with  them. 
  I know that the tendency in small groups like this is to  say, "Oh, the fellowship, the teaching, everything is so wonderful. Let's keep  it the way it is, we don't want anyone to come in and spoil it!" And so we close  ourselves off from others and stop reaching out. Pretty soon the group becomes  stagnant, and dry, and dead. What if Antioch had taken that position? What if they  refused to let Paul and Barnabas leave, or failed to support them when they  went? History might have been different. Thank God they knew how to reach out!  
  SUMMATION 
   The Book of Acts records the good and the not-so-good.  The majority of the letters in the New Testament were written because of some  need, or problem, or question, or argument that arose. So a  New Testament fellowship is not a perfect fellowship. In the  New Testament they struggled, they argued, they debated; they experienced  successes and they experienced suffering; they experienced spiritual growth and  they experienced some who fell away. 
  If we dare to enter into relationship with others as a  New Testament fellowship we will, no doubt, experience the same joys and the  same sorrows that the New Testament church experienced. That isn't so hard to  understand when you think about what the Body of Christ really is not a group of  spiritually perfect people, but a fellowship of men and women who have believed  on the Lord Jesus and are discovering what it means to love God, love one  another, and love the world around them - Reaching Up, Reaching In, and Reaching  Out. It is the love, after all, that really proves we are who we say we are.  
  I am your brother,
Chip Brogden
www.theschoolofChrist.org